Thought Loops

Thought Loops

A relationship thought loop is a repeated thought that creates a minor obsession to think about someone or something over and over and over again. It could be words that someone said to you at any point in your life and maybe those words felt loving and good.  Maybe...
How to Deal with Regret

How to Deal with Regret

Emotions fall into three categories:  useful emotions, indulgent emotions or not so useful emotions. When you think about regret, which category would you put it in? Regret can be useful if we use it to make a change in our lives. If we are using regret to blame...
Orgasm Anxiety

Orgasm Anxiety

Do you ever find yourself thinking about your appearance vs pleasure during sex? Do you try to please your partner more than yourself? Have you thought “this is taking way to long for me to have an orgasm,” so you don’t, give up and let your partner have his? Your...