To really love is to love unconditionally. It is showing up for yourself first with an open mind and bright light. Loving yourself through it all. All of life’s ups and downs. This is life for all humans. Everyone.
When I was younger and didn’t know any better, I thought it was just me that not so great things happened to. It was me because of my up bringing, because of this or that. It was a lot of mentally beating myself up and thinking that others had seemingly perfect lives except for me.
What I have learned is the everyone in this universe has been through some shit. We all have our good and bad days. We are all happy and sad and feel all the emotions. Now some people like to “pretend” that life is completely perfect with not a bad day in their life. That is their story to own. I know the truth and live and breath into it. I show up authentically and open and therefore can be a safe space for others to show up authentically and open. This is how we learn and grow from each other. This is a spiritual life. Vibrating as higher humans.
Unconditional love is something you first do for yourself always. You have to always be number one in your life. You have to really forgive yourself for anything and everything. We all make mistakes. We have all been trespassed. However, you slice it unconditional love should be a top priority.
When you love yourself, you can fully give and receive love. The secret is to do this unconditionally without expecting anything in return. Just love. Love feels good. It’s the best emotion. It is always available. If you feel like your love hurts you are not doing it right. Love for the sake of loving yourself and others. Be the bright light in this world that everyone needs and deserves. Each night is a death and each day is a rebirth. When you think like this you can start shedding what does not serve.
The Sage perspective is looking at every circumstance in our lives and finding the 3 gifts from it. No matter how bad a situation may seem you get to choose.
The Sage Perspective | How To Find The 3 Gifts In All Circumstances
You can begin to ask yourself; how will I take this experience with me?
Will I judge myself and others?
Will I mentally kick myself in the ass?
Or can I look at this circumstance as a gift? A gift of knowledge and leaving the rest behind.
Listen to your intuition. Go deep and grab these gifts. It’s loving yourself through all of life’s experiences. You get stronger and better. You begin to not repeat the same mistake once the lessons are learned. You get to decide to do that on purpose. It feels so much better to find the gifts and ditch the rest and leave it all in the past where it belongs. It is vibrating at a higher level as a human.
I love the lyrics of this Chris Stapleton song, Millionaire.
They say “Love is more precious than gold”
Can’t be bought and it can’t be sold
I got love enough to spare
That makes me a millionaire
I just love this song. It feels good. It’s really where I am at and how I feel. I have so much love for myself and therefore I have so much love to give to others… unconditionally and without expectations. The truth is you can only accept and receive love from others if you love yourself. It’s not selfish. It’s a priority.
Recently I was introduced to a new soul friend. I am going to breath in love for this special soul purposefully placed in my life. I am going to give and receive love over and over. I am showing up authentically and with an open mind. It feels good. I promise you love always just feels good.
You are so worthy of love. You are an amazing human on this planet here to give and receive love. Start with yourself. Start today. Start by mastering the Sage Perspective and finding 3 gifts in all situations.
You are beautiful. You are seen. You are enough. You are loveable. You are worth it.
I will always believe in you.
